have been “educated” about puberty, is the trauma completely absent? No, because

the education is lacking in a vital area. Words cannot convey everywhere close
as efficiently as pictures can. It’s possible for you to talk all day to a lad about how organs or
to a girl about how breasts come in all sizes and shapes, but it won’t remove
the anxiety that their penis or breasts are unusual. But if they’ve
Chances to see members and breasts in all their astonishing assortment, the point
is driven home that their body is equally as ordinary and acceptable as anyone
else’s.
Kids are not allowed
to meet their totally natural curiosity when it’s safe to achieve that. Adults
have sex hormones raging through their bodies. Prepubescent kids don’t.
When would be the best time of life to learn about human bodies?
Before children have to
Begin coping with sexual urges.
However, astoundingly, we
think the most terrible thing of all is to permit a child to see an adult naked.
What disaster!
Instead, we compel children
to wait until they enter puberty. Afterward they not only must take care of their
Fascination driven by a natural and wholesome desire to become trained, but also
driven by these brand new, nearly overwhelming sexual urges. They get it all
dumped on them at once and are left alone to deal with it by themselves.
Is it any wonder there is
sexual dysfunction in our society? Is it any wonder teen sexual activity and
pregnancy and venereal disease run rampant in our society?
Is this not accurate kid
abuse?
Make no mistake about it,
once children reach puberty, they’ll start preparing themselves, one
Manner or another. If parents or some other adult authority figure does not help
them do it, they will do it by themselves.
And all of US know how they
will do it.
They will gather
misinformation from friends as ignorant as themselves. They are going to develop
addictions to pornography. They will experiment with nudity and sex among
themselves, ignorant of the risks involved. And they will do it all with a
ghastly mental stew of sexual arousal, shame, remorse, and rebellion blended into
it.
Oh yes, this is substantially
better than enabling children to experience nudity under cautious grownup
supervision before their sexual hormones begin to flow.
An grownup permitting a kid
to see him or her nude is child abuse? No, no. The law that criminalizes letting
a child see an mature nude is child abuse.
Nudity that is meant to
be shocking or sexual or endangering or lewd through the individual’s intention
and behavior–now that is child abuse. But legally defining the only
existence of nudity as lewdness or obscenity is an evil, archaic view that
must be stamped out.
Children are never educated
to accept the aging cycle of http://x-public.com . Everyone fears getting old. We think
old bodies are http://nudism-life.com . We fear them. For God’s sake, cover them up! And lo and
behold, take a look at the youth-worshiping culture we now have. Coincidence?
Billions of dollars are
spent on makeup, clothing, even surgery, to try and pretend we’re not becoming
old. Why? Because we fear it. Why? Because we never see it.
Because we always hide
our bodies from one another, we never get to see the natural aging life cycle of
human bodies. That which is concealed from us is mysterious and frightening.
If we could only see
human bodies in all the different stages of aging on a regular basis, it would
be a familiar sight to us, a comfortable sight. Aging would be a natural thing,
not something to fight tooth and nail in anxiety.
Is it not emotional abuse
to teach people to dread the natural life cycles of their own bodies?
Children, like all people,
equate their bodies with themselves. They are their bodies. If we teach
them to be afraid and ashamed of their bodies (and we do), they will be humiliated
of themselves. And hence a uncontrolled epidemic of self-loathing booms in our
culture.
Notably our women. The
most amazing women on the planet still believe there’s something wrong with their
bodies.
Children are killing
themselves over lousy self-image. The girl that purges or starves herself to
death because she can not accept her body is a prey of the self-loathing that
anti-nude attitudes help to foster. The gang banger who carries a gun and kills
someone for “dissing” him is actually killing children over self-esteem. “You

disrespect me, you perish.”
And where does this
Wild lack of self esteem come from? The causes are complicated, but how can the
lifelong shame we feel over our own bodies not be a subscriber?
Our luxury of hiding
nudity from each other may even be killing our children. Never mind emotional
Mistreatment. This is physical abuse of the nastiest sort. All because we do not desire to
see a bare human body.
That’s where the accurate
shame lies, not in our bodies!
Many kids never get to
feel totally comfortable with the opposite gender and never get an adequate
Instruction on human bodies to satisfy their interest. Most kids will not
Take this situation forever. If the adult community will not satisfy their need

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